Become the master of your own orgasms with our top tips for better masturbation

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Become the master of your own orgasms with our top tips for better masturbation

We all know sex is great and having someone else make you cum makes you feel amazing but there is something to be said for taking control of your own orgasms and finding out what gets you hot.

Some people view masturbation as a taboo subject but it’s not something anyone should be ashamed of everyone, and I mean everyone, does it from time to time. It’s a great way to relieve stress after a long day, clear your mind and even sleep better.

Now what if I told you there a few tips and tricks to take your “alone time” to the next level? You’d be interested right?

So here are my top tips for a more pleasurable, next level orgasm all by yourself!

Set the mood

Setting the mood can make a big difference to how you feel and have an impact on how your session ends, so turn the lights down, light some candles, pop on some of your favourite tunes or porn and get down to business.

Explore your body

Taking time to explore your body can make a massive difference to your orgasms. Think about it, you get little shivers when your partner touches certain spots on your body, the back of your neck, your inner thigh, so why not try seeing which other spots get you all tingly?


Did you know lube isn’t just for sex? It can come in pretty handy when you’re on your own too. Adding a generous squeeze of your favourite lube is going to make you feel slick & slippery and make every touch feel that much more pleasurable.

You can even spice things up and try using a lube that gently heats or adds a tingly sensation inside and out.


Ok so this one may seem like a no brainer but the right toy can make all the difference to how and when you orgasm.

The great thing about masturbating is there is no need to be embarrassed, you’re on your own with no one watching, so you can try absolutely anything.

The world of toys can be a little overwhelming if you’re new to them and can take a while to work out which work best for you whether it be a wand, dildo, butt plug or clitoral stimulator but once you’ve found what you like you’ll want to reach for them more and more.

Don’t be afraid to make some noise

If you live with other people, this may not be doable for you but if you find yourself with no one around don’t be afraid to express yourself and make some noise.

You may feel silly, but you make noise when having sex and how much better does it make it? Exactly! So why not make it when you’re alone. Having an orgasm isn’t just down the touch sensations, it’s a full-body experience and all your senses are heightened so let out that moan, I promise you’ll feel better for it.

Don’t be afraid to experiment!

This is an important one. How is your partner supposed to know how to get you there or what you like if you don’t know yourself? Masturbation is a great way for you to find out what you do and don’t like.

If you’ve always wondered what all the fuss about anal is or if you like nipple clamps this is the time to try it without any embarrassment.

Remember it’s all about having fun at the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong way, it’s all about you and what you like and want!

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