Up your blow job game with our top tips

We all know men love getting blow jobs, but we’ve all doubted ourselves and wondered if we’re “doing it right”. Like everything in sex, there is no right or wrong way when it comes to giving head but there a few tips and tricks to give him an experience he won’t soon forget.

Relax and enjoy it!

Try to relax and enjoy the moment, if you’re not relaxed your partner will pick up on it and it could make the situation uncomfortable for both of you.

Ease yourself into it and have fun, he’s going to enjoy what you’re doing no matter what, I mean you have his penis in your mouth, what’s not to like about that?

Don’t rush, it’s not a race

Start off slowly, the best blow jobs aren’t over in a flash.

Start by teasing him and trailing kisses down his body as you move your way down, it will build up the excitement and turn him on.

Taking your time will not only build up to an amazing orgasm but it gives you time to find the rhythm that works for both of you.

It’s not just about your mouth

Giving a great blow job isn’t just about bobbing your head up and down till he blows his load. It should be a sensual experience for both of you, so get your hands involved. Try running your hands up his thighs or playing with his balls for added tantalising sensations.

Griping his shaft at the base can not only increase his erection but it can give the sensation of deep throating, simply grip the base of his shaft and move your hand in rhythm with your mouth.

Getting past gagging

Gagging is a common side effect of giving head but it doesn’t have to ruin the moment.

If you struggle with your gag reflex you could try using a Deep Throat spray that will gently numb your throat and make gagging a thing of the past!

Controlling your breathing will also help if you struggle with gagging so get into a rhythm, out on the way down and in on the way up.

You can never have too much spit

Spit is essentially natural lube and you can never have too much when giving him head. The wetter you get him the better it will feel so don’t worry if you think you’ve got too much saliva in your mouth, to him it will feel amazing.

If you suffer from dry mouth or just want to mix things up a bit try using a flavoured lube, there are so many to try you’re bound to find one you both like.

It’s all in the eye contact

Making eye contact every now and then is not only sexy as hell but you’ll get off seeing how much he’s enjoying what you’re doing.

Enjoy yourself

Most importantly, enjoy yourself. If you’re not enjoying yourself, he’ll be able to tell and it will impact his enjoyment. If you need a little break that’s fine, add a little excitement by coming up for a kiss and using your hands for a little bit, the change of pace will make it all the more enjoyable for both of you.