A Beginner’s Guide to Dildos

So, you fancy opening yourself up to the wonderful world of dildos?

Great decision our beginners guide to dildos is here to help!

Dildos are the perfect do-it-yourself sex toy, as you are in complete control of the motions. Dildos come in pretty much every size, style, and material you can imagine, so if you’re a beginner to dildos, the choice might seem a little overwhelming. 

Silicone, rubber, glass, metal, small, giant, fantasy, realistic…phew. That’s a lot to mull over. Well. Never fear. Your friends at Saints and Sinners are here to walk you through the dildo maze and leave you purring with delight.

Check out everything you need to know in our epic dildo guide. 

What is a Dildo?

We’re glad you asked!

A dildo is usually a penis-shaped sex toy (but not always as there are now many creative and imaginative shapes) designed to penetrate and stimulate all those amazing erogenous zones. These include the P-spot, G-spot, the clitoris, and so much more. They’re masters at simulating the same earth-shattering feeling of having a penis thrust inside you, but, unlike a real penis, you can choose the length, girth, and features. Typically, they come with a tapered tip and a smooth shaft, but there are plenty of variations available to suit every need. 

Dildos are multifunctional sex toys that can be used in so many ways. You can use them vaginally, anally, and (if you’ve chosen a knee-trembling vibrating option), externally to really get your juices flowing.

There are many types of dildos available, all designed for penetration. However, they’re also super versatile and you can enjoy your dildo for solo play or with a partner. Dildos can also be attached to strap-on harnesses via their suction cup or flared base, so you can pound away easily to your heart’s content. 

Why Should I buy a Dildo?

Buying a dildo (or several) is the perfect way to start your sex toy journey. 

We love dildos because of how versatile they are and due to the number of different options available. If you’re looking for something small and discreet – there’s a dildo for that, if you’re looking for something huge to stretch you out – there’s a dildo for that, if you’re looking for a way to up your solo play sessions – there’s a dildo for that!

Because dildos are perfect for solo and partner play, you can experiment with different styles, features, and sizes to discover what’s best for you. If you start with something small, you might find after a while you want to graduate to something bigger and thicker. No worries, there’s a dildo available in pretty much every size you can imagine and even ones you can’t 😉!

The sky really is the limit when it comes to choice, affordability, and pleasure, so adding dildos to your sex toy collection is a smart and kinky decision.

Types of Dildos

Dildos are great for any sexual orientation and can be used by yourself or with a partner to spice things up.

There are a LOT of choices available when it comes to finding your perfect dildo. The different types of dildos range from small to monster, so it’s worth having a look at our dildo size guide to find the right choice for you. 

Wondering how to find the right dildo? Whether you’re looking for dildos for beginners or the most popular dildos on the market, there really is a dildo for everyone. Here’s a little breakdown of the types of dildos you can buy. 

Realistic Dildos

A realistic-looking dildo can be a real turn-on. This style normally tends to have features such as a head, a realistic shaft with veins, and balls, which can produce the most realistic and delicious sensations when you’re pounding away. 

A lot of realistic dildos also come with suction cups on the base, allowing you to ride it hands-free when you want to switch up positions. 

Large Dildos

Fancy going big? A large dildo will ful-FILL your fantasy of being filled and stretched thanks to their big and thick design. 

A giant dildo has one objective – to fill you completely. You can choose short but extremely thick styles, long slim styles, or giant styles as long and thick as your arm (we actually sell fist dildos with a forearm)! Of course, you can’t just dive right in with a giant dildo, you need to train yourself and work your way up to bigger sizes. Always start slow & use loads of lube.

Anal Dildos

Whether you’re an anal play veteran or a backdoor beginner, anal dildos are an amazing and fun way to explore the sweet spot pleasures of anal – for guys and girls. 

You can use your anal sex toy to fill any hole your heart desires, but they are especially orgasmic when used to stimulate your anus. For the beginner, opt for one of our more slender and tapered toys, and for the bottom enthusiast, reach for one of our large anal dildos and fill yourself to the brim. Both smaller and huge anal dildos come in a variety of styles and shapes and include breathtaking features.

Double-Ended Dildo

Fancy having double the pleasure or sharing with a friend? A double-ended dildo was made for you.

These usually come in two styles:

1. U-shaped double penetration is designed for double penetration of the vagina and anus.

2. Double-headed dildos have a penis head on each end and a long shaft which is perfect for enjoying with a partner so you can be penetrated at the same time.

Both of these options can be for solo use or with a partner and can add a whole new level of satisfaction to your sex games.

Fantasy Dildos

When standard dildos are just a little too vanilla for your kinky tastes, there are numerous types of different fantasy dildos to cater to the wildest fantasies. Everything from dragon and alien dildos to tentacle and animal dildos, ensures that you have a unique experience with an orgasm-inducing fantasy dildo.

The wide variety of fantasy dildos available is sure to meet your wildest fantasies.

Whether you fancy a little doggy style or being filled up with a horse’s cock, animal dildos ensure a realistic and totally gratifying experience. Or how about some fantasy role-play? Choose from dragon dildos and tentacle dildos for an out of this world experience you’ll never forget.

Vibrating Dildos

If you love sensation then why not try a vibrating dildo? The buzzing vibrations combined with the feeling of being filled up lead to earth-shattering orgasms. 

Vibrations cause your muscles to clench, creating epic climaxes, and with some dildos, you can choose the speed of the motor to suit your needs. And don’t forget, not all vibrating dildos are the same. Some vibrate while others twist, throb, or thrust. 

Glass Dildos

While the idea of a glass dildo might be confusing, the smooth sensation is amazing at gliding in seamlessly and creating an out-of-this-world sexual experience.

You can also use glass dildos for temperature play, as they are cooler than other types of dildos, and you can put them in the fridge to make them even icier or heat them up with some warm water to really add some heat to your penetrative play. As glass is non-porous, a glass dildo is easier to clean and poses less risk of bacteria being trapped in the dildo. Another bonus – Glass dildos don’t deteriorate the way other types of dildos can, so their life expectancy is much longer. 

Metal Dildos

When you want to experiment with a new sensation, then a cool metal dildo can do just that. Stainless steel sex toys can be warmed up or cooled down so you enjoy hours of intense temperature and sensation play, as you feel your muscles contract, relax, and give into unadulterated pleasure.

Stainless steel dildos are non-porous and durable, making them hygienic and safe as well as utterly mind-blowing. A metal dildos life expectancy is much longer than other types of dildos as they don’t deteriorate.

Inflatable Dildos

These dildos inflate, you heard correctly! These dildos, which are made of flexible latex or rubber, can be inflated with air using the attached pump to produce a dildo that is enormous in both length and girth.

Why would anyone desire a dildo that is inflatable? Why? Because it creates a feeling of being full that stretches you to satisfaction! We recommend beginners to start small so they can experiment gradually until they reach the desired size.

Squirting Dildos

Want to make a cock cum on command, with a squirting dildo you can do just that! Many people enjoy the feeling of having a cock ejaculate inside them.

Ejaculating dildos are the ideal partner for amazing realistic play because of their squirting action. These ergonomically created lifelike ejaculating dildos are easy to use but oh-so-gratifying, and they feel and look just like the real thing including veins, glans, and a bulging head. Once its blown its load, it’s ready to go again straight away. Squirting dildos can keep up with the hungriest holes 😋.

These are just some of the most popular dildos available. You can also find strap-on dildos, suction cup dildos, vac-u-lock dildos, fist dildos, small dildos and even dildo fucking machines. Shop around and discover the best dildo for you.  

How to Choose a Dildo

With so much choice available, you might be wondering how to find the right dildo for you and your needs. 

No worries horny friends, we’ve got you. 

We know it can be hard (pardon the pun) to pick the perfect dildo for you, but there are a few things you can look out for to ensure you choose a stud and not a dud. These include:

– A firm but flexible shaft for optimum thrust potential

– The right size to suit your comfort level

– The best material for your needs

– A soft and realistic exterior to feel like the real thing

– Realistic features such as veins (if that’s your jam)

– A suction-cup base or ability to be fitted to a harness to give you optimum play features

– Extra features such as vibration

The best dildos have a firm but flexible shaft so they follow the contours of your body hitting all the right spots and can be used to penetrate without going…for use of a better word…floppy. What a buzzkill!

If your dildo has a firm core, it will make it more stable and give it the perfect amount of support. This makes it easy to insert and ideal for getting you off. To balance out the firm shaft, you also want to look for a dildo with a soft exterior, so it feels like skin. The combination of a firm shaft and soft, realistic exterior makes for an orgasmic experience.

Considering the size of your toy is something you want to think about when it comes to a beginner dildo.

You don’t want a dildo that’s too small, nor one that’s too big before you’re ready. While the size of the most popular dildos is between 7 and 8 inches in length, you might find you can take something a little bigger. It’s always a good idea to start at a realistic size and work your way up to something bigger if you fancy a challenge. Just remember to be body-safe and never use a dildo that’s so big it makes you uncomfortable or causes you pain. 

Dildos are generally created to look and feel like the real deal. Most dildos come with realistic features such as a penis head, balls, and even veins. You can also find dildos with ribbing and wrinkles to stimulate your erogenous zones even more, so have a think about what features are most appealing to you. 

If fantasy dildos are more your cup of tea, there are a wealth of options available to satisfy every kink, including animal and alien versions (The Freaky Beasts Hentai Tenticle is one of our favourites).

Dildos come in a bunch of different materials. Silicone is a popular choice as it’s body-safe and non-porous, easy to care for and feels just amazing. There are also TPE dildos which feel super realistic, cool and smooth glass and metal dildos and even wooden dildos! 

The final point to consider is whether you want to choose a dildo with a suction cup. This optional feature offers so much versatility, as you can change positions by attaching your dildo to a chair, a wall, or even a shower wall. 

Ride ‘em cowboys and cowgirls!

How to Use a Dildo

OK. You’ve chosen your perfect dildo and you are chomping at the bit to get started. So now you just need to know how to use a dildo.

And, yes, it can be as simple as just slipping it in and getting going, but to make things easier and more satisfying, here are some tips for how to insert your dildo:

1. Clean your dildo. Even if it’s brand new, make sure you clean your dildo (check the packaging for cleaning instructions) before using it. If you want to use your dildo anally and vaginally make sure you clean your dildo again before inserting it vaginally to avoid the risk of infection. Body-safe is the way to go! Also, clean it if you’re planning on sharing it during the same session. 

2. Lube up! As far as we’re concerned, you can never have enough lube. Slather your dildo in lube, starting from the tip down the shaft to the base, and even squirt some around your vagina or anus for extra slippery fun and sensation. You can thank us later.

3. Take it slowly. If you’re a beginner, it’s a good idea to start slowly and just get used to the feeling of your dildo around your genitals. This is a massive turn-on in itself, so lay back and allow yourself to feel all the sensations. A little external stimulation along the labia and clitoris goes a long way and will really put you in the mood. 

4. Enjoy! Spread your labia or buttocks and slowly insert your dildo and start playing. You can use an angled motion to stimulate the G and P-spot, or just see what fun you can find. Try quick in and out motions, deep, slow thrusts, and circular motions in a variety of different positions. Do what works for you and go at a pace that is enjoyable and comfortable. 

Techniques

Hitting the G-Spot – This is a great way to use a dildo to experiment and help you figure out what works for your body. As you pull it out, apply pressure so that it hits the top of your vagina and drags across your G-spot. Once you’ve located that magic spot just aim that way and shoot to thrill!

Do the twist – Many dildos are designed with different bumps and textures along the shaft which add extra sensation as you move it in and out. To maximise the effect of these areas, try rotating the dildo as it you push it back and forth.

Deep and shallow – Mix up the depth of penetration with your dildo with long, deep thrusts and short, shallow thrusts. This means you’ll be more likely to hit those nerve endings towards the entrance of your vagina, as well as the G-spot and pleasure zones deeper in.

Push it down – Similar to hitting the G-spot, this position relies on penetrating at an angle. However, instead of pushing towards the top of the vagina you’re aiming the other way. As you’re laid on the bed, angle the dildo downwards, apply some lube and enjoy the friction against your clit.

Use your dildo for masturbation or with a partner and enjoy the sweet sensations.

How to Clean and Care for a Dildo

When playing with your dildo, it’s important to be body safe. 

Cleanliness is crucial, which means following the instructions on your dildo’s packaging and giving them a proper clean before and after use. This is especially important if you are planning on sharing your dildo with a partner and if you’re using it for both vaginal and anal penetration. 

You can use specialist sex toy cleaners or mild soap and warm water. Just make sure you check and see if there is a specific way to clean your dildo according to the instructions. Remember, the better you look after your dildo, the longer it will last. 

Best Way to Store a Dildo

Once your dildo is fresh and squeaky clean, leave it on a clean lint-free towel to dry. 

Some dildos come with their own storage bags which is super handy for stashing them away safely between uses. Silicone dildos should always be stored away from each other. If you can, we recommend keeping all your sex toys in individual bags to keep them clean and germ-free. You could even treat yourself to a box with separate compartments so you always know where your favourite toy is and they’re all ready and raring to go.

Keep them out of direct sunlight and somewhere cool and dark to preserve their life even longer. 

You’re a Dildo Master

You’re no longer a beginner to dildos. Now you know all the important stuff about dildos and how to use and look after them, there’s no stopping you!

Check out our huge collection of dildos and start your horny journey today.