Nothing can kill your buzz more than your dildo not staying in place and missing your sweet spots. We’ve all been there. They can be slippery little suckers! To tame your dildo and get back to the sexy job at hand, try one of our strap-on harnesses or strap-on sets. These strap-ons were made for penetrating fun and pegging. Whether you are looking to pound your partner, or switch roles and let them penetrate you, a harness is the best way to ensure a smooth and exciting ride. 

You can also treat yourself to one of our harness compatible dildos, which comes with all kinds of kinky extras. From vibrating dildos to double penetration styles (our personal favourites) and even a double cock dildo for those who can take it.

Ready to find the best strap on harness for your kinky escapades and rule the bedroom (or any room you damn well please!)? Explore our phenomenal collection of Strap On Harnesses and strapon sets below!

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Strap In & Ride! What IS a Strap-On Harness & Why Is Everyone Obsessed?

So, what’s the magic behind a strap on harness (or dildo harness, as some call it)? It’s a cleverly designed piece of gear, usually made of adjustable straps (often leather, nylon, or other body-safe materials), that you wear around your waist and/or hips. Its glorious purpose? To securely hold a dildo in place, allowing the wearer to deliver penetrative pleasure like a pro! Why the obsession?

  • Role Reversal & Power Play: Wanna flip the script? A strap on harness lets anyone take the penetrative role. It’s HUGE for exploring dominance and submission.
  • Hands-Free Heaven: With the dildo securely harnessed, your hands are free to tease, caress, spank, or whatever else your kinky heart desires!
  • Shared Pleasure: It’s an incredibly intimate way to play and connect with your partner(s).

Pleasure for ALL:

  • Pegging Paradise: A pegging harness is essential for women wanting to anally penetrate men. The sensations for him can be mind-blowing (hello, prostate!).
  • Lesbian Love: A cornerstone for many lesbian couples wanting to experience penetrative intimacy.
  • Straight Couples Spice-Up: Introduces new dynamics and sensations.
  • Men Can Wear ‘Em Too! For double penetration fun, or for guys who might need a little help maintaining an erection but still want to deliver the goods with a strap on harness for men.

Leather Vixen, Panty Power, or Classic Comfort? Choosing Your Harness Style!

Strap On Harnesses come in all shapes and styles!

Classic Adjustable Harnesses:

Often a leather harness strap on style, or made from sturdy nylon, these feature multiple adjustable straps for a custom, secure fit. The workhorse of the strapon harness world!

Underwear-Style Harnesses:

Think a sexy thong, brief, or boxer short with a built-in O-ring at the front – a panty strap on harness is super comfy, looks hot, and feels more like lingerie. Great for a less “strappy” feel.

Material World:

Leather is classic BDSM, durable, and moulds to your body. Nylon is strong and often more budget-friendly. Silicone or neoprene can offer stretch and comfort.

Dildo Attachment:

Most use an O-ring (metal or flexible silicone) to hold the dildo. Ensure your dildo has a flared base to stay secure! Some high-tech strapon harnesses use systems like Vac-U-Lock for super-secure, quick-change action.

Luxury Strap On Harness:

For those who want the best of the best, a luxury strapon might feature premium leather, exquisite detailing, and superior comfort and construction.

For Her, For Him, For Them! Strap-On Fun for EVERY Body & Desire

One of the most beautiful things about a strap on harness? It DGAF about your gender or who you love!

Strap On Harness for Women:

Whether it’s for pegging a male partner, intimate play with another woman, or even solo exploration with the harness secured to furniture (get creative!), it’s a powerful tool for pleasure and control.

Strap On Harnesses for Men:

Yep, guys can totally rock a strapon harness! Perfect for giving their partner an extra dildo during sex (double penetration, anyone?), for guys with ED who still want to penetrate, or for exploring different roles in BDSM play.

Newbie to Nailing It: Your Guide to Using a Strap-On Harness Like a Boss

Ready to get strapping? Here’s the lowdown:

  1. Pick Your Dildo: Make sure it has a flared base so it won’t slip through the O-ring! If you’re new to receiving (especially anal/pegging), start with a slimmer, beginner-friendly dildo. Consider a beginner strap on kit if you want it all in one.
  2. LUBE, LUBE, LUBE! Essential for both the dildo and the receiver. Don’t be shy! Always best to use a water-based lube if unsure about compatibility with a toy.
  3. Harness Up: Loosen the straps, step in or wrap it around your hips/waist. Adjust for a snug but comfortable fit. The O-ring or dildo base should sit firmly against your pubic bone.
  4. Insert Dildo: Push the base of your chosen dildo through the O-ring from the inside of the harness outwards. It should be a snug fit.
  5. Communicate & Conquer: Talk to your partner! Start slow, find your rhythm, and enjoy the ride!

Beyond the Basics: Kits, Vibrating Harnesses & Luxury Strapons!

Ready to level up your strap on kit game?

  • Beginner Strap On Kits: Perfect if you’re new! These strapon kits or strap on sets usually include a comfortable, adjustable harness and a beginner-friendly dildo, plus sometimes lube and toy cleaner, a complete strap on dildo set!
  • Vibrating Strap On Harness: Some harnesses come with pockets for bullet vibes to stimulate the wearer, or you can pair them with a vibrating dildo for dual-buzzing pleasure for the receiver! A vibrating strap on harness adds a whole new dimension.
  • Large Strap On Harness: For those who like it BIG, or need extra support for a heavier dildo, a large strap on harness offers more coverage and sturdier construction.
  • Strapless Strap-Ons: A different beast entirely! These are usually double-ended dildos where one end is inserted by the wearer for internal anchoring. Great for intimate grinding, less so for vigorous thrusting without harness support.
  • Hollow Strap-Ons: Now THIS is clever! A hollow strap on features a dildo with a hollow shaft. This allows a man to wear it over his own penis, instantly adding girth, length, or a different texture to his natural equipment. It’s fantastic for guys who want to offer more, explore different sensations for their partner, or for those who might sometimes struggle with maintaining an erection but still want to deliver that satisfying penetrative pleasure. Everyone gets to feel more!

FAQs: Your Strap-On Secrets Uncovered!

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A strap on harness is a wearable device that securely holds a dildo, allowing the wearer to engage in penetrative sex (vaginal, anal,  hello pegging harnesses!) with a partner, regardless of their own anatomy. It’s all about versatility and shared pleasure!

Most strapon harnesses are highly adjustable with buckles, Velcro or adjustable straps to fit a wide range of body sizes. Check the product description for waist/hip measurements. A snug, secure fit is key for effective thrusting!

Crucially, you need a dildo with a flared base or suction cup that’s wider than the O-ring on your dildo harness to keep it from slipping through during enthusiastic play! Many dildos are "harness-compatible." You can usually buy extra rings to add to the harness for different-sized toys.

A well-fitting one, yes! Look for comfortable materials (like a soft leather harness strap on or a padded panty strap on harness) and ensure it’s adjusted properly. It should feel secure, not painfully tight.

A strap on harness is just the harness itself, you add your own compatible dildo. A strap on kit or strap on set (especially a beginner strap on kit or strap on dildo set) usually includes both the harness AND a dildo. Perfect for getting started!

Many strapon harnesses are unisex! However, you can find strap on harnesses for women styled more like lingerie (e.g., panty strap on harness) or strapless strap ons and strap on harnesses for men designed for different types of play like double penetration or wearing over the penis.

Hell yes! While giving your partner earth-shattering pleasure is a massive turn-on in itself, many strap-on harnesses are designed with the wearer's pleasure in mind too! Some feature textured inner surfaces, pockets for bullet vibrators near the clitoris or perineum, or are designed to create delicious friction against your body as you thrust. Plus, some dildos designed for harnesses (like dual-stim dildos) have a shorter end to pleasure the wearer simultaneously! It's all about that shared pleasure!

Absolutely! This is one of the fantastic, empowering uses for a strap on harness for men (or any penis-owner!). If erections are sometimes unreliable, a strap-on allows you to deliver consistent, powerful penetration without worry. It can take the pressure off, bring back a beloved form of intimacy, and let you both focus on pleasure. We also have hollow strap-ons designed specifically for this!

Welcome to the thrilling world of pegging harnesses! Our top tips for the receiver's pleasure:

  1. LUBE, LUBE, LUBE! And then add more. A quality anal lube is non-negotiable.
  2. Relaxation is Key: Foreplay, deep breaths, maybe even some gentle anal massage beforehand can help those muscles chill out.
  3. Start Small: Choose a slimmer, beginner-friendly dildo for your pegging set at first. You can always work up in size!
  4. Communication & Safewords: Constant check-ins and an agreed-upon safeword are essential for ensuring everyone's comfortable and enjoying the ride.
  5. Angle & Pace: Experiment to find what feels good. Slow and steady often wins the race, especially at first.

For more information on pegging, check out our beginner's guide to pegging.

Oh, it's definitely double (or triple!) the fun, not a gimmick! A vibrating strap on harness can offer pleasure in so many ways. Some have vibrations built into the harness to stimulate the wearer's clitoris or perineum. Others are designed to hold a vibrating dildo, sending those delicious buzzes deep inside your partner. It adds a whole new layer of sensation to the thrusting action, pure electrifying pleasure for everyone involved!

It totally makes a difference, and the "best" depends on your kink and comfort!

  • A leather harness strap on offers that classic BDSM look and feel, is durable, moulds to your body over time, and has an undeniable authoritative vibe.
  • Nylon/Fabric harnesses are often more lightweight, breathable, and can be more budget-friendly. Great for long sessions or if you prefer a softer feel. Many panty strap on harnesses use these materials.
  • Silicone harnesses (less common for the full harness, but sometimes used for parts or in underwear styles) can offer great flexibility and are super easy to clean.

It really comes down to your aesthetic preference, how intense your play is, and what feels most comfortable and secure for you!

Super important, actually! The O-ring is what holds your dildo securely in the strap on harness. If the O-ring is too big for your dildo's base, the dildo might slip out during enthusiastic play (mood killer!). If it's too small, you might struggle to get the dildo in, or it could put too much stress on the harness or dildo base. Always check the recommended dildo base diameter for the O-ring on your chosen dildo harness!

 

Ready to Take the Reins (But Not Sure Which Ones?!) Saints and Sinners is Here to Help!

YES! So you’re ready to explore the thrilling, empowering world of Strap On Harnesses, fantastic choice, you magnificent kinkster! But with all these incredible styles to choose from – from kinky leather harness strap ons that scream “authority” to super comfy panty strap on harnesses for a more lingerie feel, and a whole universe of play possibilities (hello, pegging harness heaven!), are you feeling a bit like a kid in a BDSM candy store, not knowing which delicious treat to grab first? 😉 Don’t you sweat it! Picking the best strap on harness or the perfect strap on kit to flawlessly match your desires (and your partner’s eager anticipation!) is an art form, and guess what? That’s EXACTLY where WE come in!

Our team of pleasure pros here at Saints and Sinners are OBSESSED with the versatile and empowering world of strap-on play. We know what makes a great dildo harness for those intense, all-night sessions, the ideal beginner strap on kit for couples just dipping their toes into the exciting waters of pegging, and the most comfortable and effective strap on harness for women or versatile strap on harnesses for men.

Got questions buzzing in your head about the best fit for your body type, which dildos are compatible, or how to introduce it to your partner for some mind-blowing couples bondage fun? Hit us up! We’re practically bursting to share our top tips, tricks, and match you with the strapon harness or strapon set that’ll make your kinky dreams come true. Forget awkward silences or fumbling, you’ll get real advice from fellow pleasure enthusiasts who absolutely get it!

But Don’t Just Take Our Word For It… The Moans (the GOOD kind!) Are REAL!

Honestly, the stories and feedback we get are incredible, and enough to make even us seasoned kinksters blush! We hear all the time from couples (of every persuasion!) who’ve unlocked explosive new levels of intimacy, explored thrilling power dynamics they never knew they craved, and had truly mind-blowing, shared orgasms with their new Strap On Harnesses. Think confident role-reversals, partners discovering new erogenous zones with pinpoint accuracy, and a whole lotta deeply satisfying, rhythmic thrusting. People are unleashing their inner dominant or submissive gods and goddesses and having the absolute time of their lives!

H.M.

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“10/10 would strap again 😉 ”

I have used plenty of strap on harnesses in my time but so far this is absolutely the best. i love that it came with two rings as my toys have various sizes and its difficult to squeeze them into some rings! the bullet pocket is perfect and makes using the harness a lot more enjoyable for the top. All round its a great harness for beginners and experienced people alike!

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“Wicked Piece of Equipment”

Excellent quality! Was very dubious about buying this product as the price is low in comparison to others of the same or similar quality. However we are both extremely happy and not just with the price or quality.
Very comfortable to wear for long periods of time.
The cushioning in the pelvic area is excellent (after previously been left sore or bruised by others). Extremely comfortable, positioned in the correct place to give a very realistic experience. I can not recommend this product high enough.

Leum

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“Just Right”

This is awesome it was our first strap on toy and it is perfect and grate fun and very pleasurable. We both enjoyed playing with it made my man cum like never before .very easy to use and clean comfortable when wearing. Just grate all round and vert fun do a buy it’s grate for the price 😉

 

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