Large Dildo Guide: A Beginners Guide and How to Use Them

Looking for something to REALLY fill you up?

If your regular-sized dildo just isn’t doing it for you, then maybe you’re ready to upgrade to a big boy! Large dildos are amazing for size play as well as giving you those delicious filling and stretching sensations. 

But, if you’ve never used large dildos before, then you might feel a bit intimidated. After all, they come up BIG. Never fear horny friends, our large dildo guide will show you exactly how to use a large dildo, and give you all the stretching advice you need to take even the chunkiest horse dildo for a spin.

Buckle up!

What Are Large Dildos?

Big dildos are larger than life. They can range from a little bigger than a lifesize dildo all the way up to eye-popping jumbo sizes. You can get shorter but much thicker styles, perfect for touching all the sides, long and slim versions to go as deep as possible, or a tantalizing combination of super long, and super thick, to really get you off.

These monster dildos also come in a variety of styles. From realistic penis models, huge horse dildos, and even exciting fantasy dildos to take your sex games to a whole new level. 

But before plunging in with a monster dildo, it’s important to prepare yourself and play safely. If you’ve never tried a large dildo before, then knowing how to take on a big dildo like a pro will help avoid injuries or discomfort, and allow you to enjoy them fully…and we mean FULLY.

Ready to be a size queen or king? Let’s get into our large dildo guide. 

How to Use a Large Dildo

Size play is when you want to be penetrated with a larger-than-average toy – enjoying amazing filling and stretching sensations – and large dildos are perfect for this. 

Larger dildos feel far more intense than the standard sizes. Now, you might want to plunge straight in with a monster dildo, but, even if you’re no novice with sex toys, it might help to start on the smaller size of the large dildo market and work your way up (as you work yourself up!)

Your body needs time and practice to get ready to accommodate such a big guest. Never rush in without preparing your body first.

Try different shapes and styles and experiment with silicone dildos, which can be a softer and more comfortable material. Now, before getting started, make sure you thoroughly clean your dildo. To make the experience of using a big dildo as pleasurable as possible, it’ll help to get yourself aroused, so you’re relaxed, wet, and raring to go! Don’t just go in at the deep end with an extra large dildo, start with smaller ones and get yourself ready for the plunge.

Lube, Lube, and More Lube

We can’t stress the importance of lubing up enough when it comes to big dildos. Depending on what your dildo is made of, use the correct lube to ensure your large dildo doesn’t get damaged (check out our lube guide for more info).

Don’t be stingy with the lube. Even if you and your monster dildo are fully coated, slap on another layer just to be safe, and reapply as often as necessary. If you are using your huge dildo anally, it’s even more important to use plenty of lube, as the anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina. You want to keep things as smooth and slippery as possible, so remember – the wetter, the better!

Use Safe Words

If you’re experimenting with a partner, then it’s crucial that you both play safely, especially if this is a new experience. Keep communication open (not just moans and groans), and be sure to let them know if or when you reach your limits. Safe words are good for this, as well as just being open and vocal with each other. 

As soon as things start getting a little uncomfortable, or you experience any pain or discomfort, let them know. Stretching and depth training takes time and patience. 

Take Your Time and Go Slowly

You might feel excited and raring to go, but taking things slowly is important. Nice and easy is the way to go. There are depth training dildos you can use to train your anus so you can go in stages, going a little thicker and longer each time. 

When it comes to stretching, you’ll probably need to work your way up to that extra-large dildo! So having a variety of dildo sizes that you can use to stretch yourself ready for the main event would be beneficial.

Make sure you give yourself plenty of time to play with your huge dildo, whether you’re alone or with a partner. Large dildos aren’t for a quick fumble in the sheets, they take time to insert and enjoy and you need time to allow your body and your mind to relax. 

Insert a little of your large dildo at a time, taking breaks whenever you need them. If at any point you reach your limit and start to feel pain or discomfort then stop.

Change Positions

Switch up your positions when experimenting with a big dildo, and keep going until you find one that lets you be as relaxed and comfortable as possible. Try laying on your back with a pillow under your bottom and your legs raised and spread. Some people also love squatting down over their dildos, giving full control of the depth.

Whatever position you try, remember that the more comfortable you are, the easier it will be to enjoy the pleasures of your monster dildo.

Filling and Stretching Sensations

OK. You’re relaxed, comfortable, and truly turned on, and the huge dildo is in place. Now comes the time to enjoy the feeling of being filled up.

Don’t go straight into thrusting mode. Small movements, gentle thrusting, twisting, and shaking are perfect for getting started as your body gets used to the mind-blowing filling and stretching sensations. Your large dildo will touch all the erogenous zones, so even small movements will be enough to push you over the edge (in a good way)!

Experiment to discover what movements you prefer all while paying attention to your body’s limits. 

You’re a Large Dildo Master

Now you know how to use a large dildo, the sky’s the limit, as is your pleasure. Just keep that lube in stock, start small and work your way up, and enjoy the ride.