This torturous thing is designed to restrain, humiliate and punish all at once! So, if you like the idea of a bit more CBT in your scene, a humbler is the next logical step.
Ergonomic and deviant in design, a humbler consists of two separate parts, with a testicle cuff mid-point. The two parts are placed either side of the scrotum, then attached and tightened, usually with two wing nuts. Forcing the wearer to their knees, the humbler sits behind the butt cheeks and keeps them crouched or ‘humble’, with the legs bent. Any attempt to straighten the legs will result in a painful tug on the scrotum. So the only way the wearer can move around is to crawl on their hands and knees, perfect for those into humiliation and CBT. Not only is a humbler a restraint, it’s also provides easy access and keeps the wearer’s junk exposed to whatever perverted punishment comes its way. Why not add a pinwheel or give those balls a gentle spank? Those balls won’t know what’s hit them!
Reasons You Should Try Humblers
Think the idea of squeezing your scrotum is a bit scary? Well, we’re all for modesty but when it comes to extreme pleasure, a humbler is the ultimate tool and here are 6 Saints and Sinners reasons why;
Get a little more ballsy…
The Bold and the Beautiful with a twist! The original may have been a soap, but trust us, you’ll be feeling downright dirty when you play with a humbler. So, come on; get with the programme! All eyes will be on those bulging balls as they present themselves for whatever pleasure, stroke or punishment is deemed to come their way. Plus that look of vulnerability and what it represents will be a massive turn on for both of you. So isn’t it time you were on the ball?
Find your release…
You’ll soon see that a humbler is the ultimate ‘squeeze’! The nerve endings around the penis are super sensitive and that’s why this type of stimulation is perfect for them. Wearing a humbler will cause some discomfort and a dull ache. So endorphins will be released (the body’s natural painkillers) to counteract it. The effect is like morphine or codeine and the natural high you get can put you in an altered state of consciousness. So hurry up, you don’t want to miss out!
Add some sensation play for extra intensity…
Time to get a taste of supreme sensitivity! Wearing a humbler will increase blood flow to those bits so they swell with pride and become super sensitive to the lightest touch. Why not take advantage of this by teasing and tickling with a pinwheel or a feather? Not only do the intense sensations have you on the brink of climax in seconds, they release more endorphins and adrenaline for the ultimate euphoria. Getting the picture yet?
Move towards a healthier relationship…
The trust required for this encounter is totally humbling! Wearing a humbler means pushing boundaries which can only be done with someone you are completely comfortable with. Not only will seeing each other in a new light increase the attraction and trust between you, it will also deepen the connection and your relationship. But the fun you get from playing with a humbler isn’t just in your head!
Get loads of resistance and pleasure…
If you like pleasing rather than punishing, wearing a humbler can mean the most intense orgasm ever. That’s because at the point of orgasm the testicles instinctively move up towards the body. This can’t happen with a humbler device on. Not only does it mean the semen has to travel further so it’s a longer lasting orgasm, the resistance at the point of orgasm is much more intense. Perfect pulling power that always pays off!
Restrict yourselves; a humbler always hits the spot…
Not sure what your stance on humblers is currently? Well don’t move a muscle; we’ll help you figure it out. Humblers are super secure restraints, keeping the wearer on their hands and knees exactly where they want to be. Any movement will cause pain so they will stay in the perfect position for their pleasure or punishment. Great for any type of anal play or experimenting with other types of BDSM, a humbler will always hit the spot!
Safety First!
So, we’ve established you have balls, since you’re toying with the idea of using a humbler! But safety first when it comes to this kind of play and we want the lasting impression to be pleasure, not pain or injury…
Trim any pubic hair in the area to avoid pinching and snagging. A small amount of water-based lube can also help with comfort when putting on the humbler. Only play with someone you trust completely and make sure to discuss a safeword/limits before you start. As always, go slow and watch for every reaction/response as you try new things.
Since any movement causes a painful tug on the testicles, subs should keep their movement to a minimum. Stop immediately if there is loss of sensation, swelling or colour change and release pressure every 25-30 minutes to allow blood to flow back to normal. It’s not uncommon to get “blue balls” after using a humbler. This is a dull ache in the testicles that should only last a couple of hours. If the pain persists, we’d advise you go get it checked out. If you notice any abnormalities, including swelling or blood spots, make an appointment to see your doctor.
| ✅ Do | ❌ Don't |
|---|---|
| • Trim pubic hair to avoid unnecessary snagging | • Pull or tug on the humbler |
| • Alleviate pressure every 25-30 minutes | • Leave the device on for prolonged periods or overnight |
| • Stop immediately if there is a loss of sensation, swelling or colour change | • Forget the aftercare! |
| • Discuss boundaries & agree on a safe word beforehand | • Leave humble bottoms unattended |
| • Take things slowly & monitor reactions as you experiment | • Fasten the humbler on too tightly – always err on the side of caution |
| • Stop immediately if pain starts to spread | • Play when intoxicated |
Getting Started With a Humbler
So you’re ready to assume the position but not sure where to begin? Let us help:
- Unscrew both wing nuts and separate the two parts
- Wearer: get on your hands and knees
- Top: get behind them
- Top: with one hand grab their balls and gently pull them towards you
- With the other hand place one part of the humbler against the back of their thighs so the notch is facing up
- Pull the balls through the notch so only scrotal skin is inside – the balls should be outside the device
- Hold the balls and this part of the humbler in place with one hand and slide the other part in with the other
- The two parts should fit together without pain if the scrotal skin is in the central gap/notch
- Make sure no skin has moved from the gap before screwing the two parts together
- Screw the two wing nuts back on and tighten
Humbler Aftercare
Don’t balls up your whole experience by forgetting the aftercare! Aftercare is key with this kind of play; no matter how ballsy you are! Make sure you give yourself time to recover and gently ease back into reality. Bottoms may be left feeling psychologically and physically drained (in more ways than one) after this brutal session so you’ll need a Top to provide them with some R & R. Have blankets handy in case body temperature drops and some chocolate nearby to get that blood sugar back up.
A humbler may cause minor injuries or bruising if the sub is not one for sitting still. Treat with an ice pack, gently wash the balls with antiseptic soap and apply a small amount of antiseptic cream to reduce swelling and prevent infection.
Take care of those balls and they’ll be ready to take their next beating in no time!
